In a relationship?! DONT HELP A LONELY FRIEND.

Are you in a relationship and want to help out a lonely friend? Well don't! Not exactly speaking from experience. I just have seen some go wrong, I am honestly not saying helping your friend is bad. Just that any person in that state would be vulnerable and would hold on  to every moment like it would be their last.

Such a person would be so needy and would always crave attention, worse if the friend is trying to get over a breakup. Let's not forget the helper is in a relationship.Can I know a partner who is comfortable with their spouse in that position? Anyone?

Want to help your friend come out of loneliness,here are some don'ts. 

• Being with them alone: they won't like to socialize or mingle, therefore being alone is inevitable and you all know what we would blame the devil for?😄
• A shoulder to cry on: Its ok to listen to a lonely friend ramble on,you would become their priest to whom they tell all. This will relieve the faithful and help you bond. Bonding with him or her would affect your relationship with your partner.
• DONT Take them out for a picnic, a movie or something you know they like, they would start to read meaning to the gesture. YOU RE WARNED!!
• Leave your lonely friend alone when you want to go out with your partner. Don't take them on your date' they would want as much attention as you are giving your spouse.
• Don't cancel your plans just to be with them, they begin to see what isn't there. On the days you can't cancel for them it may make them feel lower and they might go further to resent whoever or what is keeping you from them.

Well no DO's ....hehehe, I only know what not to do if you are in a relationship you want to keep.